All dreams need to be tested to see whether they are in truth attainable in reality of your life. A wife is always the best "critic" when you take it right and as a man should. A wife will always come up with the most questions so you need all the right answers for it to come out right when you put it all into action. It is when you cannot find the truthful answer that you can know perhaps you need to go back to the drawing board to get the dream straightened out and put back in truth. You have to remember a wife is a partner for life, walk it together as one making your dream her dream as well. When you are able to make your dream her dream not by force but in love, then she will always remain your partner throughout your life as long as you are who God made you to be that is faithful and true to a promise you made her when you took a wife for love.