What Am i trying to Say from this Blog ?

                                   I have seen Many On-line Multi Players gamers Tend to Rage out , Tilted and Grief. Which When happens too often it might Affect their Real life Attitude. All These Raging and failure Brings High Depression  Which affects your Attitude over Everything. No one wants to Rage out Unreasonably There's Always A Reason What are they , In this blog we are gonna See the MOST IMPORTANT REASON and how to Over come that. 

My Experience:

                                   I am From a Defense of the ancients ( DotA ) Gaming Background. Its one of the Leading Esports games , playing this game for a while now ,  i myself have Experienced Rage/tilted situations. Where players Rage soo baldy They Flame , They Trashtalk , They tend to Spoil the game of others. 

Whats the Reason Behind all these ?

                                   As far i noted , here is my Briefing . Most of the Multiplayer Games Have a System to Categorize their Players Skill levels Which sometimes May fail miserably by 

• Matching a Good player having good skills with relatively Bad team mates with low skills Making the gaming experience Bad for that Good player.
• Sometimes even a Bad player Gets placed in a highskill bracket where he should not be and ends up ruining the game for his team mates , Vice versa . A good player getting placed in a low skill level and making him lose hope and confidence over his skills. 

What does these Reasons Has to do with Attitude changes ?

                                  First of all  , Most of us are Try hards We Try hard and dont give up on things Easily , Which could be a  "Double Edged sword " . How ?  Since we are Trying and Giving All out for that Game and to raise in the skill brackets , We without knowing ourselves would expect the others Doing the same thing . Which in some cases might Coincide and the Match would give a good experience , Inspite of its results.

                                  What if The Other players / Player didnt Take it serious enough What would happen?. They would be doing only their 80% of potential and would start playing with less efficiency. ( Here what do i mean by seriousness is Little Focus and concentration . somepeople would play while on cellphone, somepeople would go Away from keyboard and stay afk rest of the match)  these things are considered Spoiling for rest of your Team mates.

Lets Me Tell You a Story. By end of this you'll understand Everything mostly .

                                  A guy . Whose been playing For quite a While and developed good skills in game. But out of bad Luck and situations Ends up in the Trench and Scrub players.  ( Good plot ?) Our guy Is a positive minded and Really a kind guy in Real life. ( Spoiler : not for Long ) .

Despite Being Placed in the trench He decides to Work hard and Rise his Ranking by taking and playing all the matches seriously and concentrate on developing his skills .

For a couple of months He keeps on made matches with spoilers, Low skilled players both in his team and his opponents , so doesnt take much care of those and rises above them , despite facing the rages all he came through of others in his team. So far he havent raged and Keeping things Cool and only developed his skills .

Now Comes the Climax , *bumbumbum* .  He starts getting Match Made with Lowskill players in team and Good players in opponents , not once not twice for a long period of time , A very long period . <~~~ (poor guy) . He cant rise over the opponents since his team is constantly dragging him down and are burden to him . Now what happens ?. he starts Scolding them ( human nature  and learnt these , while his journey over all these months that scolding and flaming is normal ) .  Starts noticing their gameplays and feels depressed on his failure to Increase in his Skill brackets though being a higher skill player.  This depression Becomes Anger,  And eventually this anger Becomes Toxicity. " i am a mediocre cinema fan , i like only the protagonist " Even after months of dedication and trying he still havent raised above , Cause he wins 2 matches and dragged down loses two matches. This Experience completely Makes our protagonist to hate Other "IDIOTS" ( basically low skilled players cant even do a simple thing are considered idiots,  sorry i am offensive here , its not me its the protagonists view :3 ).

And now Even though he gets match made with good players now his Previous bitter experiences have completely Changed him From a NICE , CALM AND COOL GUY to a TOXIC GRIEFING Person.

HOW TO OVER COME THIS ?

•  Remember At the end of the Day its just a Game! 
• Two if you resemble our protagonist , DO take Some Vacation from the Game , Dont spam Hours of gaming. 
• If you are getting match made with Toxic Players , There's Always a mute button in almost all multi player games
• If you Keep on losing To do not play the game for a while , even though its not your fault . 
• Understand the FACT . Not only you that Grows better in the game , even your opponents also grows better with the skills , so Respect that and try to be friendly as possible , if the Stupid ones showsup in the team . completely ignore them.  ( PS: first of all , not all are stupid ones since its a TEAM GAME TRY TO BE A TEAM PLAYER , ignore them yet play along them , cause Stupid ones tend to give wrong calls at wrong time of the Game)

DISCLAIMER , IF NONE OF THESE WORKING FOR YOU : MAKE A NEW ACCOUNT :p , and if you feel you are the one whose dragging down your team mates In your higher skill , go back and play in your Old account Trust me ,it helps . Or Try to Learn more and get competitively Good enough.  

CONCLUSION :

Remember NEVER RAGE FOR A GAME , CAUSE IT ALSO AFFECTS YOUR EMOTIONS IN REAL LIFE .  And Just Because Your TEAM MATES HAPPENS TO BE IDIOTS , Dont DEVELOP An Attitude all of the people Around you are idiots ( they even might be ! who knows )  BUT still Dont be Like that RESPECT EVERYONE . RESPECT THEIR POSITION AND SITUATIONS . Sometimes people might have to go afk for a reasonable cause or necessity.  

NOT ALL TAKES GAMES SERIOUSLY. unless you are a Competitive player (  if you have a dream of becoming one, RAGING OUT only gonna drag you down ). EVERYONE LEARNS AT SOME POINT , IF YOU ARE GOOD ENOUGH YOU WOULD DEFINITELY RISEUP  , JUST TAKE CARE OF YOUR ATTITUDE AND LET OTHERS SPOILS THEM . NEVER BE TOXIC CAUSE YOU ARE BEING TOXIC TO YOURSELF MORE THAN OTHERS. Its Affecting you the most Than others.  

 

 

 

 

PS:  this is my first Blog, Hope its useful . in upcoming Blogs i'll try to be more apt and Content-wise. Thankyou