This may sound weird but please hear me out. When I was much younger I overheard a discussion between two lesbians. There was a fat girl about 220 pounds and a slim girl who was about 120 pounds. The fat girl really liked the other one and she was trying to get with her. She was kind to her and gave her presents and cash.
The other girl took all she could do form her and in the end told her that she was just too fat so it could not possibly work between them. And that lesbians are just for the slim and trim. Well the fat girl was very hurt and what she was told devastated her. So the prejudice against fat people have being going on for years when I look back at it.
She had no problem taking money and gifts from a fat girl, but she could not she herself in a relationship with her because of her size. My mother would always tell me, Lakeisha do not take a man things if you know you do not want him.
I guess that girl needed someone to show her that what she did was wrong. I never saw them again, but sure hope karma played a number on her for being so mean.