sometimes it is really very hard to imagine, why some people who are in a loving relationship are still get  web caught in a wheel of confusing emotion,most study says that women level of satisfaction in there relationship contribute greatly to the possibility of cheating, ano b talaga ang kulang sa relationship  ng isang tao? at hindi lang iisang beses k nag tataksil sa iyong kapareha? i honestly believe that cheating is not happen on impulse, it is not only about disrespecting your partner, but it is also disrespecting yourself,it is never a mistake.because we know it was wrong right from the very beginning. cheating is simply a foolish decision that we make,when we allow ourselves to give in to temptation. marahil marami ang mang huhusga na kung mahal mo talaga ang isang tao ay hindi mo dapat nagagawa ang bagay na yan sa iyong minamahal.dahil kung mahal talaga natin ang isang tao ay hindi tayo gagawa ng mga bagay na alam nating makasakit sa kanilang damdamin...kung gayon masasabi ba nating hindi na natin mahal ang isang tao kapag tayo at nag taksil sakanila? kung ito ang magiging basehan natin ay masasabi natin na iilan lang talaga ang tunay na nag mahal,dahil madami sa atin ang hindi lang minsan,ay nag taksik sa mga taong mahal natin. many of us have cheated emotionally or physically on our partners at some point in our lives, does this mean we do not love them? in most cases we know and swear we loved them,but whenever we cheat on them we are just showing that we love ourselves more than anything else, cheating is not about disrespecting your partner, its about disrespecting your self. sa umpisa ay mukhang maganda at masaya, but in the end we will realized its not really worth it...sana ay may magising sa katotohanan na hindi maaring habang buhay ay paulit ulit na pagtataksilan ang isang tao.at paulit ulit na hihingi nalang ng tawad. that is not a relationship work,kung nagkamali tayo ng minsan ay may pagpapatawad, pero kung paulit ulit nating sinasaktan ang isang tao...ay mabuti pang wala na tayo kinalaman sakanila because it is unfair it is unjust. we just cannot hurt someone over and over again.

hindi sa lahat ng pagkakataon ay nananaig ang pagmamahal natin sa isang tao,minsan ay mas nangingibabaw ang pagiging makasarili natin,nagpapadala tau sa tukso.dahil mas mahalaga satin ang gusto natin kaysa sa kung ano ang tama at ang katotohanan. all of this can be summed up in very important commandments love god above all, and love your neighbors as you love yourselves, if we love god we will willfully  avoid things the bible call sins and if we love others as we love our selves hindi tayo gagawa ng mga bagay na alam natin makakasakit sa kanilang damdamin.at makakasira sa mga pagsasamahan na pinahahalagahan natin.

 

lovingly yours,

grace haha