Love and hate are the part and parcel of life. Some time in life we hate few peoples though we do not know the exact causes why we do like that .Also other time we fall in like and loving some people having amazing personality.
We try to know more and more about those personality and we consider their fans too. In our relatives also we like the company of few relatives as they spread positive vibraations and they always talk about love and compassion. They actually spread the love and compassion wherever they go.
Negative people never remain calm and they used to spread negativity all across the world.Also our subconscious mind catches negative statements more easily than positive. We need to affirm more positive statements to make them real .
Just think of those parameters and control your emotions and stay positive
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