Life is not fair, a quote that my coach repeated three times in a debate competition. Almost all six groups that had participated in the tournament did not score any point in the third round. Our coach gathered around all of us. He told," Life is not fair. You have to accept it and learn how to go ahead with it”. He said,” You have to learn how to win and how to lose; when you win stay calm and when you lose bold yourself." We all were unhappy but those words were magical; after round forth, we observed how it works, when you learn how to lose.