When you get married, everything in your life is changing.
Every decision you make, depends your partner and what will effect your decision in his or her life.
For women it is worse. People expected women to obey and manage her life with her husband. Most of women accepted it.
The worst part is that job and other life difficulties separate you from each other. Working or studying in another city or country. The distances what do with relationships?
This is what I am thinking these days!
When life forces you to spend the best of your life separated, what is the point? You ask yourself is this opportunity in work or study has the value for putting my relationship at risk?