Knowing how to seize your happiness can protect themselves from unnecessary damage, and can stand up on their own after stumbling or wrong.
Never unfocused that put entire faith in someone is the right choice. Even myself also can not guarantee their happiness, they were as nothing to rely entirely on someone here?
Only those who understand the value of the claim itself can get justice for yourself, too soft living only bring hurt. Do not hope to rely on someone to lifelong enjoyment of happiness, hope it will be just asking for disappointment, stumbled a few times can push us to the mouth of the despair and grief.

Happiness belongs to you, let yourself embraces it, just live independent and strong as possible when necessary, respect yourself before you expect someone to bring her, know your own values so it is not a cheap thing in the eyes of others, and said angrily dismissed envy to feel at ease, do not be spiteful because things are not good.
As a game that can not handle all the victory, all bets on the person in front, unfortunately lost all his will only take a tragedy.
Put your happiness in the hands of others, is like turning yourself into someone wearing pieces arbitrary control, no self control not to learn how to protect yourself, do not dare to stand alone and not be as mature . Knowing how to seize your happiness can protect themselves from unnecessary damage, and can stand up on their own after stumbling or wrong.