If you are in a situation of abandonment, accept the fact that he does not love you. Life out there is still going on and your true happiness would still be there.
Phan Y Yen, renowned author of numerous collections of short stories for young people ever compiled, from childhood growing up we were always taught to love a person, but no one teaches us how to stop. Sometimes harder than going to stop, get rid of love even harder exertion entered.
She's my best friend used to own a love that lasts more than three years with a lot of deep dark memories, it is not easy to forget. But you know, love stories can not predict, can not predict the future. One day, her friend woke up and realized I was no longer a little affection with boyfriend any more. Let's drill blame, by love moments you just leave the moment he walked into your heart, totally unexpected and so sudden that you can not control, can not power "commander" .
I suggest you break up and of course, the other guy did not agree. He fell into the "crisis" shock to the full game as "crazy" to hold my friend back. He was on duty one day the door, calling even threatened to commit suicide if you do not come back ... The climax of the relationship when he said that I will kill you and then commit suicide. Love has become a burden.
This time, your job transfer to another city, all information will be kept confidential to the other guy does not know where to look. I do not know this may be extended to as long as ever and the new guy learned to accept that love has ended.
The moment love is gone, you will not be eager to face him, eager not great moments with the person. I read the newspaper and saw so many tragic cases, when the youth was his own lover murdered because they do not love anymore. At that time, I wonder why they can not go to a gentle love?
In my friend's case, or the case of so many other people, I just wish you added a little patience, patiently waiting people no longer consider myself the most special anymore. Of course, with you, who stood up to leave before, you will feel something that is easy. But try to put yourself in the shoes of the other person, who abandoned? Too bad, right?
Besides, you should take the initiative to protect themselves, because no one can be with you all day, all month, all year to protect you. You have to put yourself in the initiative, alert the abnormal action of the other.
If you are in a situation of abandonment, accept the fact that he does not love you, you do not need to anymore. Life out there is still going on and your true happiness would still be there. Do not sit around resentment or do crazy things that hurt people, hurt people around and even hurt yourself. After all, anyone in this life deserves to be loved.
