Hello, Maybe all of us are familiar with the concept of first impression (the first impression) -Click first impression we have of a person is usually the most impressive and the most obvious of them . This means that even after we have different impressions of that person, the first impression can still strongly influence our thinking. If first impressions are pretty good we tend to think about it; or vice versa, so a bad impression.
That's another way of thinking about peopleaffected by the original. We should not be our first impression of a person we are biased about this person forever after that. Always makes me biased blurred vision. It's called a "mortgage".
But in the immediate presence from other people , then we should re-create a good first impression with others, as this is more convenient for many of our human relationships.
Many people's first impression is not good, just because of their habit, who is introduced as someone with them, it was their first job:
• look at each other from head to toe style police he wanted to know what type, or
• nodded smiling to see a channel style, or
• Half mouth smiled and turned away to continue the story with someone, or
• jerkily talk and no information at all, such as "Welcome, sister, sister school eh?" "Oh, no", or
• hand or foot tapping beats sitting there nervous or tense ...
The same attitude is naturally created a very bad first impression. But people do not know that, because of the attitudes that are unconscious.
How to create a good impression and easiest, and easy to unconscious habit that attitude very nature, is every time we meet someone new is always self mind: "I want to know more about this person to has added a new friend. " Caution: Do not want more than this person "to make your decision whether or not", but rather want to learn more "to add a new friend." Positive determination he wants his friends to have it, do we have a positive attitude, easy to feel, easy to close with everyone.
When we have self-mind like the natural human will know the intimate smile, inquired about the news just met (you study here? Class? They also learn not seen this star ever behold spend? She learned a few days a week? wow, this robe made for her that someone so beautiful, or is it her into talking shops for fun? ...)
If you are interested to know more about a person in order to close them, though there are, naturally, you know what to do.
There are some books you just know everything first impression from the handshake to the standing posture, and the type of sentence should say. Read it well, but if it does not come out from your mind is just diplomatic formula is very bad, because of your diplomatic formula, every gesture and words often seem fake and cheap money. The gestures and words penetrate deep into the human heart has always been very honest from the center out, everyone can see into the mind and emotions as it is.
Nothing difficult at all, just a very simple mind, permanent, always: "I want to know more about this person to have added a new friend." With everyone, without exception-regardless of age, gender, politics, religion, race, wealth, good ignorant ... Do not let your prejudice block your path right from the start.
If you keep practicing sincerely like you will never be concerned about first impressions anymore, because you are too busy talking and did not have time to care about the story unnecessarily. That is when the artist has reached the pinnacle of art.
Wishing you a day full of impressions.
