*Image credited to Rain Tajon
Five common questions that surely got a very reasonable answers.
Not sure of what to write next, I might have made some readers got bored with book reviews, now I am sharing something personal this time; too personal in the sense that I don’t really open my heart. I Have decided to write what really am I really going through, so let us say, “opening the doors” of my soul right now.
But before I get to those question, let me tell you how is like to be single.
Status:Single
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Late 30’s, still single and questions are being thrown upon me, they are more worried that I am, which is funny. In this regard, I have asked myself, what do I like; do I really wanted to remain single forever; or will I be finding “The One”? And the reason why I haven’t been to my alma mater’s alumni homecoming. Lol.
If other people tend to be asking me a lot of questions, I have the same thing too, asking myself few questions but at the end of the day, as I asses myself, I am okay, I am doing great, I am happy. How come I am feeling those?
I am okay since I have nothing to worry about what to eat since I can just cook whatever I want to cook without pleasing anyone. I am doing great; very fine to be honest for the only thing that could give me stress is work. And I am happy, I love my independence, relying myself more than men doing some jobs that require more muscle, I can do those, what those arms and fats for.
This is how I live my life right now that some cannot understand still and asking me questions about not in a relationship can be quite a common thing.
Now, let me go down to my list of questions.
FIVE QUESTIONS THAT EVERY SINGLE PERSON MIGHT HAVE BEEN ASKED AND THEIR ANSWERS.
People tend to question you a lot if you get into that stage of your life. But, I wanted to say something about the common questions that I often asked by friends and even acquaintances, my family have accepted that more family members are going to grow old single and they skip the questions. Common questions that if it is not just me who have heard of the same thing over and over again, and somehow can relate with me. And in those questions, I have been very vocal with my answers, some just don’t get it, and always have that follow-up question.
Now, here are the questions and follow-up questions and my answers (best and reasonable).
1. WHEN WILL YOU SETTLE DOWN OR GOING TO MARRY?
*Image is credited to Rain Tajon
Okay, this is the first of the questions that will be asked then more will follow depending with your answer. But let me ask you this, what is the ideal or right age to settle down for you?
I almost settle down at an early age but I was heartbroken at the age of 19. Then I planned to get married at the age of 25 then something happened again. Now, I am 37 and no boyfriend so you know that I don’t have any plan to settle down soon.
My answer is pretty obvious; now let me get you to the second question and like a follow-up after the first.
2. WHY YOU DON’T HAVE A BOYFRIEND/GIRLFRIEND
*Image is credited to Rain Tajon
When you answer the first question of, “I don’t have someone to marry yet” chances are, this question will pop. So, on my part, why is it really?
I have no admirer.
Does that sound too honest and too straightforward? Well, that is true. No one has been asking me for a date for, maybe a couple of years now. Why? I don’t know. Maybe I am too friendly, or maybe one have asked me but thought of it as a joke and never asked me again. It can be that men find me too intimidating or my independence seems a threat for them.
Not losing any hopes though that one day, someone will just ask me out.
3. ARE YOU PICKY/CHOOSY?
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This question will come after the second one. Some people will think that I have been so picky that is why I have no boyfriend, not even an admirer. One of the assumptions they think but I must admit that is true.
Being picky or choosy for me is just the same as being more futuristic and honest to myself. I don’t want to get involve with someone who seems to have no ambition, no plans, no goals, or just have none. I am not talking here in terms of financial matters, well, sort of. All I wanted is to have someone who is a good provider in everything.
I wanted to have a secured family. Isn’t it just fine to want it right?
The term picky can really be meant, I don’t want someone who spends his money with vices, so a man that doesn’t smoke, gamble and drink(more than occasionally)
4. ARE YOU GAY?
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Why some people think of this? Sexual preference or orientation has been a common question on me since I am more a boyish when it comes to wearing clothes. Ugh!
If I wear sneakers and shirt most of the time, it is more of the comfort that I think of, not being on dressing the way what people expect to a woman. Well, I walk fast too, to the point that I don’t know how to move those hips. And eat fast like I am on an army.
No finesse. Like a man.
I am a woman who finds comfort in shirts and jeans since I walk and commute most of the time.
5. ARE YOU HAPPY WITH BEING SINGLE?
*Image is credited to Rain Tajon
This seems to be the question where my answer has always been the hardest to take.
I am okay since I have nothing to worry about what to eat since I can just cook whatever I want to cook without pleasing anyone. I am doing great; very fine to be honest for the only thing that could give me stress is work. And I am happy, I love my independence, relying myself more than men doing some jobs that require more muscle, I can do those, what those arms and fats for.
There is always happiness in SOLITUDE, believe me.
PERSONAL THOUGHTS.
*Image is credited to Rain Tajon
There is nothing wrong with being single, it is one of the choices others made that it is a hard to take, some even regret it. Enjoy the life of being one and don’t mind other people who seem to be minding your own personal life rather theirs. There is a beauty of being one SINGLE PERSON. It is up to you to see it.
To those who keep asking why are we still single, thank you for the concern on our genes being wasted. Pray for us instead, that we may find “THE ONE”.
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