Please bare with me for posting this one here. Here I go. I have two friends on my facebook who keep on ranting and saying nasty posts about each other. And the main reason why these girls have gone loud and wild on the site is a guy. I don't want to make a fuss out of their private lives, but if they have the intention to do so why there is a need for both of them to post such downgrading comments about each other. I mean, what the heck! Can you please keep your horseshit to yourselves!
I know, I am now ranting. But haven't they realize that they are not just the only people in FB world who could understand and even read their posts? They have their family and even friends who can read that as well. I forgot to say that both of them are married and both having kids. And they are acting like animals, having no control over the situation and not to mention the immaturity displayed on both sides. OH MY GOSH!!!!
For you to know where I am getting this i would like to give you the story of the two. Girl 1 is a college student, who is my neighbor before, married this guy for the reason that she is pregnant for their second child. Girl 2, on the other hand, is a college graduate and now working to a company, which I do not know,and married to a another guy, who is now a teacher, just like Girl 1 a decision made out from her pregnancy of her first child. She was my bestfriend during our elementary years but things change when we went to different school on high school. As you can see, I have my reason to include them on my friends list on facebook.
The problem rooted when Girl 2 became the mistress of Girl 1's guy. Then Girl 1 can't accept the fact that her husband did that to her, which according from her past posts that shouldn't surprise her, she went to school where Girl 2 and guy were seen together and then Girl 1 stabbed her husband with a cutter. The sad thing, he was brought to the hospital for treatment and still alive. From then on, the war began.
Posting irrelevant, nasty and dirty facts about the each other's past. I can't even handle some. Well, sometimes they post uplifting comments about themselves like how good she is compared to her. Stuff like that. I don't know what would our common friends have to say about them, but for me, I'VE HAD ENOUGH!
Girls! You two are lovely to keep on fighting over an idiot like that guy. Both of you deserve a respect for being a wonderful person. You don't have to dig each other's dirt to make yourselves much better in the eyes of the people witnessing your battles. You don't have to prove whose side is winning and much deserving enough to win the love of a person who doesn't give a shit for both of you, (pardon me of my words), but hey! you are worth more than that. Instead of pleasing yourselves by throwing mud at each other why not check if your children have eaten well or properly taken cared of. You have so much love to give for those who love you both back than pouring it all of to one person who just wasted all away.
Honestly, both of you lose but if you stop and realize. There were a lot of time wasted. The two of you were blinded by your selfish desire. You'll never know, both of you been busy trying to win him back then the rest you have forgotten, which is much important, all gone at the same time. Try to consider what have been left, there lies both your true happiness.
