Do not expect anyone to love you or like you. Unless you love or like them. Giving and taking is a two way street. You have to love someone in order for them to love you in return. You have to like someone and get along with them. In order for them to like you and get along with you.
Love is just a great emotion when it works both ways and both people in the relationship is willing to give and take.
When you have a family and the kids are mad at you and say I hate you. Remember that is just how kids are. You as the adult need to be the mature one and say I love you anyway, Not yell back at the child I hate you to. Because the child might believes what you just said. Than think that his/her parent does not like him/her.
So just remember you have to show love in order to get it back. Love works two ways. Liking someone works two ways to.