Adolescent boys have trouble with attempting to have the appropriate image. They desire to be in control over their life, they desire to render their very own judgements, they desire to be invincible, but above all else they desire to be recognized.
Raising a child using these values can be very hard. Undoubtedly, a fourteen year old boy can not be under control of his very own life. It can be possible, nevertheless, for a mother or father to assist their teen learn how to render their very own decisions. It is important that mother and father devote the most time as is possible with their adolescent sons.
My advice for parents of disturbed adolescent boys is this - 1) devote the most time along with them as possible - even if you don't wish to or they don't want you to; 2) permit them room in your home to make certain options for their life (secure choices); 3) compliment your boy as much as possible; 4) self-discipline your son while it will be required - and be consistent regarding the type of self-discipline you decide to use; and 5) get him to use the most of the energy The almighty has presented him as is possible - whether or not that be by having him play sports, assist look after the lawns, animals, or focus on additional tasks, participate in a daily exercise routine, etc - but will not permit him to devote all of his spare time sitting, viewing tv, listening to music, or talking/texting on the mobile phone. That should allow his degree of power to build up and he will probably ultimately discharge it - in ways in which are not controllable.