It is easy to say but the words is harsh plus the reality may hurt.

How can I tell to a husband wanting to go back home when the relationship was still not good enough (we are separated) that I can't decide to accept him again because I don't love him anymore that I can't be his wife, that living with him probably makes my life sadder and poorer again I am okay now without him. (living with him is the saddest and poorest experienced i ever got) He uses the kids to gain me back, how can I start to live with him again, starting to think the past and to live with him with he next day start to brought me in tears again. I can't imagine the good future.

His fault, he never treated me right, he didn't change for good but for worse, he often said bad words on me, I live miserable, and poor life with him though he didn't hurt me physically but he hurt me emotionally plus the poverty I do experienced with him I can't forget.

Now that I was okay and living a good life, he is coming back again, I don't want to have a broken home for my kids but I want to be free.

Do I need to sacrifice my freedom and own happiness for the happiness of majority?

I don't know I am confuse.