He abandoned the mother know I can not do

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He abandoned the mother know I can not do
Every day he came home from work and dinner hurriedly showered go 11h- 12 midnight. I read his message sent to him. He saw me holding the phone, the backlash and forbid me to interject his private life.
Me and him know each other when I was 16, my elder brother is only 2 years old. We know each other over a network, and he pursued me. At that time he said his family was wealthy and an only child, attending an international school. I've known him for sincerity when he was calling every day asking. 1 year since the appointment was climbing the tree I felt the suspect and he did tell me was the fact that he lied to a year.

His home was poor, educated in the countryside and was unfinished. I'm not sad to know him such circumstances but I was shocked when he lied to me this year. I hated anyone cheated, so I can not forgive him and I broke up but he always pursued and waiting for me. I have cut off all contact after breaking his arm.

But three years later, I received a phone call from him, did not expect him to find my phone number. He suggested'd be back but I can not. After a few months I found myself open a little so as to see him so frankly, I decided to learn about him and his family. England in Dong Nai, the cultivation, have parents and sister, brother, he is the youngest in the house.

When I learned all is when I started with him. At that time he decided to abandon the countryside to Saigon to do to get in closer to me. I feel happy. He worked hard to earn money to live in Saigon and all that free time over to visit me. I also led him to launch his family. My mother saw a year over enthusiastic and pity him as unstable employment and hard should have told him to stay with my family.

You just have to worry about money alone should eat slowly and to spend a little and buy a car for travel convenience. I see his family and take care of my injury so I took his favor. But because his family no condition should he promised in 2012 would marry. I gave him my heart out all around. I and you live as husband and wife.

In early 2011 his parents to talk and give me a dowry, estimated last year will get married. But I happen by the end of 2011 event should go bankrupt. At that time my mother was shocked, did not have much money so we decided to postpone the wedding last year. My work day before the family makes up the time for me to start another job. House only mother, my sister, my brother and everyone should now have to fend for themselves.

My sister is married and stable business work, I get a job but also unstable but also could take care for oneself, he has a stable job and have the save. Only my brother was 19 years old, unfinished education nor my mother have to work to earn enough to plow back to farming employment.

I was very sad when her family happened so many events have you beside me but also people sharing. Between 2012 we decided to get married and chose the date to January 2013. We take care of your wedding and family support slightly. After shooting wedding in September we go premarital health examination. At this point I would know the truth hurts. I have polycystic ovarian disease and he was weak sperm. We are very hard to have a child.

Upon learning that he was very distressed me and I cried a lot. He consoled me and said keep doing weddings. He is the son of the house so I can not because my muuon that affect his family. I told him goodbye and look for people with fertility. He was silent!

A few days later he found me sad, say I do not let him know this family and still get married. At that time I was really happy when you hold me close and say so. But time also responded, he eventually snubbed me. I see you have the time to reflect, but I asked him sadly all avoid. He said it was an issue to be settled, when resolved he would tell me.

I'm curious, but the day he came home from work and dinner hurriedly showered go 11h- new night about 12pm, so I was home alone. My mother also experienced his change, she also knew my son's illness 2. Since my time working the night shift at the time he went to the play throughout. I asked him where to go, he said to go out with you because at home without me, so he sad.

I decided to switch jobs in the daytime to evening with him, but he still went smoothly. I finally discovered his infidelity. I read his message sent to you, I've enlisted saved phone numbers. He saw me holding his phone, he reacted violently and forbid me to interject his private life. More and more I cold, I decided to find the truth. I contacted his mistress and tell her the truth to know. She was also very shocked and said he would not contact him again, the sad thing is common place 2 people doing together.

When I went to see him, I can tell you I know and did not expect her to go tell my parents. Back home my mother was rushed to hit me in front of him and scold him why do so, shame my family, as we near where he worked. Mother threw him out of house and barred me and he met and knew each other well. I intend to solve with his own and did not expect that but now it gets out of control.

He looked at me and I just said quietly, me and you are crying. Mother swore at him, he just said "I do not have an affair and you have misunderstood me," but I was going to meet that girl. He said without embarrassing mouth. I give up on the terrace, which recovered after he was on. He told me "I told you not to make an issue of it that I did not hear him, and now I'd love us so its termination."

I said, "Whatever you do well, you can skip, but I can not accept his affair." He said: "I know she is just so ... but now have to explain what can not go back like before, only he did not explain further". The next day he found a shelter and move. Should I go do not see him. To see him last evening and having thanked her mother said the care he had for so long.

My mother just said, "I always create conditions for children to be near each other two but I did not expect you to treat my daughter like that. I do not want two kids to continue. I desire you to rethink what you've done in the past was right or wrong. "

He looked at me like I reacted waiting, I'm waiting for him to explain to the mother understands, but he said no and walked away. I really heartbreaking. Last night me and him were together, things we could not sleep, I hope you will write a letter to explain and apologize, I will forgive all. Bringing he read and he just said: "This time is not explained what, all too late, because hers". By now he was talking all by me, I feel he truly outrageous and slapped him two children. I left work done. The consecutive days without eating or sleeping and I just cried. My family kept saying leave me go but I can not.

My very faithful, my husband is very hard to choose. He handsome, tall, though poor and uneducated but very painstaking care to make money and the future, not smoking drinking, playboy. I love it because of his virtues. He loved me as well as my hard work and know a family, and a lot but he did not say. Although not yet official, but as a bride's family also loves me and see me as children in the family. I only know him home infidelity and scold him very much, do not know me and you get sick. Only two of his sisters know because I used to confide in her.

From the day he came out of, but also in recent that I met and he was very little. I suffer too much at muuon tough but we think probably not married and that right near the end in mind. Despite that she reserves the past year contract should still be done. I do not want that and contact him. He said he wanted to be quiet and rethink everything. I asked if he was in touch with people that you do not say no. But I still do not believe me, once any time any news universality. Day before I trusted him so much, but now he himself has lost that confidence.

I asked him "Why did you do that, the last time why do not you contact me?" He said: "He did so because he was sad, he has accepted that he could not have children. I know that he loves kids. But they can not produce offspring was as if we were married later without children, would happily not, or he must marry more mistresses? He did not want to go two steps, he just wanted to have a wife alone, you can understand. You have to give him time to think and accept that. Do not disturb me anymore. "

I was really shocked to hear him say that. I know to accept it is very difficult, I myself can not accept ourselves as women without fertility, though doctors say there is hope but no certainty. I thought you had to accept it should continue with my new but now you say that. Three years ago he would never do something at fault with me. Although I have given themselves to me but I'm very responsible, only this time. My friend and I used to dream to a small family, but now that dream ended when he told the truth he was thinking. My heart sank.

He hurt me all this time and again. Do you think my feelings? I have advised him to live comfortably, I'll have a baby alone. I have gotten rid of their self-esteem to call him back in with me but I disagree. He told me not to bother him anymore inn. I'm out on the water surface just running, I was hoping so much to him, why do not you tell me before his injuries, did not want to marry me, marriage is no more, so I hurt it once only.

Now you and I do not know as yet, I also leave all things to where they came. I have no family love, not the love of parents from the small, hard living, working and studying, trying to learn all colleges but halfway through no tuition to leave school. I know him to have hope for a new life, but now he has cast me because I can not afford a mother, can not accept any man this.

I am reminded of the old saying: "Women do not stand you." I live a decent, gentle, not dissipated, not hurt anyone, why he treated me heaven so. From here I would lock the door of my heart to not be hurt again.



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