How to have an orgasm

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What is an Orgasm?

Prior to learning about how to have an orgasm, it is important that we develop a proper knowledge of what an orgasm is. Orgasm is the peak point of the sexual excitement and it is felt in a person’s genitals. Successfully reaching an orgasm delivers intense pleasure, which is why it is by some people, considered as a goal when having sexual intercourse and is highly sought after

Some people say that achieving an orgasm can be difficult at times. Nevertheless, it is not impossible if the right methods and techniques are used. According to surveys, it is easier to have an orgasm if there is a use of lube while having sex.  When a woman is sexually aroused, the body releases a substance that makes the vagina wet which makes the experience more enjoyable. Using artificial lube can increase the friction just to the right amount intensifying the sensation of pleasure which may result in an orgasm.

What are the best ways to have an orgasm?

To make it easier to have an orgasm while having sex, you can prime up yourself before the act to build up more excitement. It can significantly shorten the amount of time you need to orgasm if you are already aroused before having intercourse. Thinking about the intercourse that will happen with your partner before actually doing it should help.

Stimulating the “g-spot” and the clitoris in just the right way is said to be one of the best ways to orgasm. The clitoris is a highly sensitive area of a women’s vagina and it can do wonders. Rubbing the clitoris against the pubic bone can intensify a woman’s experience.

Not surprisingly, the sexual position of intercourse plays an important role in this regard. A position that puts the woman on top is very useful because she can control the angle, speed and the depth of the thrust allowing her to do what pleases her the most.

Use of electronics such as vibrators is also a great method of getting off. Vibrators are mostly used to stimulate the clitoris, the reason they are more successful in arousing someone is that they offer more strokes and vibrations per second than any part of the human body can. These sex-toys can be used while having intercourse and can also be used as a means of foreplay prior to the intercourse. Getting involved in the act of foreplay is also a great way of reaching an orgasm.

Lastly, oral sex can also contribute significantly as it sums up most of the tips and techniques discussed above. Oral sex is the act of stimulating one’s genitals with your mouth, especially the tongue or the throat. Cunnilingus is the type of oral sex that is performed on a woman’s vagina. This helps incite sexual arousal and is a great way of reaching an orgasm even without the need to have intercourse. These are some of the ways a person can reach an orgasm in a short period of time.



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