If there's a single lesson that life teaches us, it's that wishing doesn't make it so The trouble is if you don’t spend your life yourself, other people spend it for you The only way that we can live, is if we grow. The only way that we can grow is if we change. The only way that we can change is if we learn. The only way we can learn is if we are exposed. And the only way that we can become exposed is if we throw ourselves out into the open. Do it. Throw yourself