The self in you is who you are. It determines your personality, your comfort level with your Peers and in particular the social setup. The moment one tends to step out of oneself and tries to conform to people and society around them, by behaving and altering their true self,It is only then that they tend to depend on the views of others which slowly leads to decreased self Confidence and a stressful life. This will soon leave us with no time for ourselves...