God is the judge of how we live. He is fully qualified and able to judge in a fair manner without our help. We don't need to become religious police, judge, or jury. We need to love other people who have problems and leave the judgment up to God
Your chance of being perfect is zero, and if you are smart, you won't criticize other people who aren't perfect. Whatever shortcomings other people have, you would be wise to send them your love and leave the judgment up to God.
The day you become perfect will be the day you have the right to become the arm of God and cast the first stone.