I'm perplexed. I can't even fathom how this guy is still walking around breathing freely. Also, I'm unclear as to what kind of men go to these things, and pay good money to do so - and laugh at the horrid things he says.
I really can't imagine this guy getting away with pushing some woman's head here in New York either - well, at least, not without never being able to have children in the future.
Men don't need a course. You really don't. All you have to do is understand that random women don't owe you *anything* - and that we're actually *people* too. It's not rocket science. Just, talk to us like we're real people. A little less concentrating on "picking us up" and a little more "oh, you're a human being too!" is in order.
And for the love of God, DO NOT EVER take this guy's advice on ANYTHING he mentions in that video or in his quotes. That's ridiculous and will eventually make it so you wind up face down in a pool of your own blood. He's a moron. Another little tip, every single thing he says - translates to us women as YOU HATE US -- no one wants to date someone that has an underlining hatred for them.
While I'm at it, let me get this out, too - stop using the words: bitch, slut, and whore. Just, stop it. I understand that society is saturated with it and that gives the *appearance* that it's *okay* to use. It isn't. Women have been, unfortunately, expected to be more tolerant. That's about enough of that too. It *does* lend itself to making us feel like you secretly, or not so secretly, hate us. I've yet to meet a man that has wanted themselves portrayed that way - this is why I'm telling you that this is how it comes across.
I can appreciate that. perhaps, no harm is intended. That it does appear like this is okay. It really isn't though. I highly doubt that you'd be very happy if women started referring to every man as a dick, or a fucking asshole - just right out of the gate. Those things shouldn't be interchangeable with "man" - You shouldn't like it. It's no good. We don't like it either. *I* don't like it.
It's also okay NOT to objectify someone. Believe me, the world will not cease to exist if we all stopped doing that. It may be less fun for the person that's objectifying, but it will make this a better world - which thing is more important?
To hit on one more topic, since you're still reading, rejection. Stop taking rejection personal. All rejection equates to is someone else has a different agenda. That's all. That's it. It doesn't mean that there's something wrong with you. It just means that they're not a jackass and wasting your time - so you're freed up for someone that can return your affections. It's NOT personal. You should probably thank them for not stringing you along and letting the clock wind down on you. Don't be afraid of rejection. They're doing you a favor.
Men are wonderful. I've always thought that. It's a good point to start at. There's no advantage to lessening that, for free. Women need to start being less tolerant of things that bother us too. No one can be expected to see the problem if it's not presented and we act like it's all okay.
Just something to think about...
Aside from: save your money and DON'T be like that asshole in the article; unless you're fond of doing time in prison.
