Let nobody control you and even manipulate you. Learn to stand on your own self without depending on others words.

If somebody controls you it just means that you are not dependent enough and your too weak because somebody is controlling you.

It is like a boy- girl relationship, you don't have to do what your partner says, if you think you don't want to do that thing then try to stand on your own and say what you wanted to say because you have the right for a complain and voice out your feelings toward that certain person.