If you want to avoid stress in your life , don't always take action in between and be affected. If its not affect  or hurt your feelings, don't be meddle in the   drama  life of others. Being generous is different for being want to be recognize.

Also don't get affected on what the others think. Those people who are important in your life are the only which can affect in your life. Just think of this; if you not harm or hurt the feelings of others...your not doing wrong. People who always think bad for you, its just their own bad not yours.

"Don't get your life complicated just like ROASTED HIGHLAND LEGUMES, because life is just like a simple small plate of peanut."