The man eventually discovers that not enough to give love a woman, child or sister only if it will be reciprocated. Understand that there can not stop love, but have outgrown the limited circle of friends and relatives. Life itself leads man to love this exceeded. To do that exceeds spell pathetic ephemeral physicality and also by transforming love into something nobler and more precious - in compassion. With the disappearance of the ego no way the search will be a sense of oneness with all living creatures. This identification with them is the highest form of love. Hate not stop hate, but compassionate love. Hatred is an indicator of the forces of evil, as well as compassion indicator of the forces of good. Love fills itself and achieves its pure and unadulterated integrity when ceases to be personal and becomes impersonal when they change from limited to the universal.