I discovered my love married men after 4 years. I never carnal relations with someone other than his wife, both male and female, because sex life of my wife and I are still warm. But frankly, in the beginning I always think of the body's muscular young man.

I understand the feeling when she caught sight of it, the startled and suffering are inevitable. I myself am a bisexual, wife and son over 10 years old. I discovered my love married men after 4 years. Until now, I never carnal relations with someone other than his wife, including male and female sex life because my husband and I are still warm.

But frankly, in my mind does not always stop to think about the muscular body, vigor of youth. And so is regarded as adultery and ideas. I suffer for trying to conceal emotions, instincts and really tired of it. My wife no doubts because I only dare to make friends with people of the same sex on facebook to relieve stress. But I do not know if I will ever hold.

I think he still loves her and should sit down together to talk frankly. I think he will speak out for her to hear his thoughts. If you still feel uncomfortable, I think two people should find a way to avoid her in sight to witness it regularly. But I feel sorry for him because he does not like me, can not relate to her anymore.

I see many comments calling her selfish or not to forgive and accept her husband. I do not ask that because each person has self-esteem and feelings are different. Affair with a male or female, it is that. Not because she could not meet his needs and he worried for her thoughtful like that ask you to sacrifice acceptable. So, you ask her heart was like to live next to each other or be freed. That depends on her love for him how. Wish you wisely choose the best for your life.