Marriage, a blessing or curse....

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Today I will discuss the marriages either arranged or love ones. It is common to all that, "Marriages are arranged at heaven but celebrated on earth." I am quite confident about this saying and am confident about its true health. Here come to the basic and pivotal point how and when to plan for marriage. In our society kid marriage was very common. Although there observed a great change in this trend yet at back-ward areas the custom is yet going on. The parents named it the blessing to young parents and early helping hand in their old age. Here I will put a pic. to elaborate kid marriage to its adverse as follow:

The other factor is cousin marriages only to retain mainly landed property within the family. This type of marriage also bring unhappy affect over the family and later on genetics problems as well. I think this is no a marriage to marry but we can name it an imprisonment within the family, whom I will demonstrate through this picture:

Although these marriages are very common in our society yet a revolutionary trend to resist against such marriages is observed at various occassions. I couldn't understand that an affected person why not feel the bitterness of his own and do courage in this behalf. This is the time of awareness and better educated generation, so we should get their consent while going ahead for their marriages, so that they can decide their future at their own. Sure in such a way, they cannot blame their parents for the after-effects either due to mis-management of pairs or mis-understanding among themselves. I my opinion the love marriages later on checked and planned by their parents are the best marriages, where both the new pair will have to sacrifice for their families and always thanks on their decisions and the best cooperation by their elders.



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ardaopk786

I am from Sahiwal, Pakistan

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