I stop being unlucky for myself, for wishing I looked like somebody else or wishing people will liked me as much as they liked someone else...

Without those things I wouldn't be me. If everyone hates me because I'm happy with myself then I stick my middle finger to everyone and say,

MY HAPPINESS WILL NOT DEPEND ON OTHERS ANYMORE. I'M HAPPY BECAUSE I LOVE WHO I AM, MY FLAWS, MY IMPERFECTIONS AND THEY MAKE ME THIS PRETTY AMAZING.