for me in my own opinion i dont believe in this boyfriend-girlfriend system i just dont like it i dont want to commit while im still not married because im still young and i have lot things to do and sometimes when you lose time with your girlfriend she will be mad at you and your relationship will become cold. i prefer being a friend to someone i love because even thou we wont see each other for a long time when we see each other again we will still be friends no doubts and no problems i will only commit when im already married when i already have the responsibility to be a husband and a dad for my own family.. i have no girlfriend since birth but im not a virgin anymore im so weird and im not girly im just the type of guy who is not good in relationships i dont even remember who took my virginity lol..