I KNOW IT CAN BE EXASPERATING WHEN CHILDREN DON'T LISTEN OR WHEN CHILDREN DON'T LISTEN OR WHEN THEY BEHAVE IN WAYS WE DON'T LIKE BUT SPEAKING DISRESPECTFULLY WILL NEVER ENCOURAGE COOPERATION OR BETTER BEHAVIOR.IT ONLY SET A POOR EXAMPLE FOR COMMUNICATION ONE THEY WILL LIKELY TO PICK UP AND USE ON YOU OR OTHER IN FUTURE.