More and more she feels calculated to spend, overextend his no way to save. It made her more upset that he seemed to feel bothered or do not bother saving the money she had disappeared for the debts of his own absurdity.
She and I come together voluntarily in love. Up her happy, but cautious erosion error in serious relationships. On new acquaintances, he spent quite aggressive but dig deeper, his family said she was not quite assume anything. His parents split up when he was young, his mother had him grow up. Knowing this, she has injured both worry, she had advised him many times about saving and spending to save for the future. She loved him, and admired his affection for his mother, making her believe that he is a good man, she deserves to stick this lifetime.
Known each other for some time, they consider the future. But the advent ironically, the same time she discovered during her know he has a different relationship. The woman was 10 years older than him, the manager of a restaurant where he and his friends frequented. The relationship that began before he knew her. She collapsed completely. She does not believe a gentle, loving mother as he had such lifestyles. Not only that, he had to borrow the large amount of people, and bank loans to pay. He begs her forgiveness and do not leave me now.
Around that time was difficult, both she and he definitely was not. He begs her forgiveness, but still not completely cut off with that person. She wanted to give up but once he cried, kneeling sorry, did you see softened.
Do not know by listening to him pleading, so have feelings for him, or so obstinate nature to want to find out eventually that he loved her or that woman, she has decided to stay with him. And she must face when deciding things like: pay your debt. In addition to principal and interest monthly bank, he owed his colleagues a gold tree, debt policy bank lending his mother during his school days.
There were several other miscellaneous debts, including money slobbering at the restaurant that woman. He went to the same partner, but then these people should not have to pay him to bear. She must also receive messages and phone threats from the woman, for a new lodging for him separated from the old environment. Previously he was in the home of her son, his cousin in the form of snacks, a bullet for, and it is they who introduced him to the woman.
His time at the new place, she also incurred additional monthly expenses of him, because his income is not enough to just worry bank, just sent home to mom, just to pay the rent. But she accepted all because she did not believe the bad quality, just change the environment, he may return to a healthy life. He also expressed sincere remorse, she also somewhat reassuring. Only one thing, when she asked him why such a large amount of debt, he said only spin is sent home, home improvement, medical treatment for the mother. She had not felt comfortable to ask not to.
Time then began to arise conflicts. She discovered many times he went massage, even went drinking at a restaurant before. She remembered once I've begged, cried, begged him to go home, but at that time he was 12 midnight shutdown. A few days later he begged and healing. She still loves him, but she had something crumbling, moss.
Seeing you two known each other for a long time, her mother also mentioned amid talk of marriage, "the daughter". Actually they are not ready at that time, because I want to pay off debts and property. Her family was totally unaware of his debts. Gradually they also swept under the parent group and prepare questions. Since his injury, sympathetic to his family away from the wedding preparations she asked almost alone take care, pay. Both gold and buy her wedding with their savings. That, and the contradictions arising before this were the joy, the happiness of her daughter about to enter the happiest day of her life in her round.
On cloud adjacent asked who he borrowed a colleague phoned her golden tree, congratulated the last sentence demanded money. She found out the day before gave him the money to pay the debt, he still retains part and spend lose. Now she feels things too much, she was angry. Then he explained how difficult this world, there must be sent to the countryside. Could do no more, she had to pass everything, but faith, love, strength began to decline.
After a bunch of questions, financially stable, debt pay nearly over, but it seems to her, and he was all charm debt. More and more she feels calculated to spend, overextend his no way to save. It made her more upset that he seemed to feel bothered or do not bother saving the money she had disappeared for the debts of his own absurdity. She poignantly realized that all along she tried to justify him: her life is not going to stick with self-esteem.
A wedding date as close, as she panicked. She raised concerns with the big decision of his life. She felt she was going the wrong way. Happily, she no longer gets excited, she wanted to rebel, wanted to escape. She has decided to cancel the marriage just two months before the wedding. Her decision met with opposition from many people, the most intense mother.
Cancel the wedding would cause embarrassment to their customers, and your mother bride, groom you. Many nights that I cried and told her: "It's a new look at the game, it looked very guilty." She loves his mother but did not change the decision. Look mom, she found herself a year, she was poor, forgive me too much, than he should receive.
He blames her, he asked why he hardest time she did not leave him time to enjoy the fruits coming, she insisted farewell. She could only silence. Everyone looked at her as children take to extra hard, or something like an urban girl instead boyfriend like changing clothes. But the only thing she is concerned that her pain was brought to the family, the parents, by the mistakes and your bigotry.
She sells wedding jewelry, partly brought him to repay the bank, part sent back to cover the cost of wedding mother asked. She advised him to make a smaller house to rent, so he will not have a shortage every month. Later that day, he did not phone, messaging night as usual.
Her father called his mother to talk and expressed apology. It is slightly heavier three, said that the custom should have money penalty wedding presents, she heard all three, received all. Listen to mother recalled, her tears flowed, crying out loud. Three remained the same, always advocate, support and love her unconditionally.
There is a walk she did not dare go home because he wanted to avoid the gaze gaze of neighbors, the question of the hon responsible parent, or the quarrel between three and mother because of her story.
Once she and I quarreled. Apparently she brought frustrations in recent years to devote time that argument. And he showed her his human disguise for so long, his massive horns, nagging and denied that she had to pay debts over time. She left shattered.
Then there was a sudden he regularly contacts, visit. Later she said, then you have to visit their houses and ask her mother to borrow a large amount. After that walk not blame her mother again. But she felt more sad, because a person has gradually alienated. I already know that, but why are you still hope she once loved not like that.
This morning he phones. After a brief visit, he offered each of them carrying half the amount of 3 million was deposited at a restaurant before. But so long pent back outbreak, but it softer, not outrage, but as frustration, as mixed bag, deposited into tears, drop by drop by drop rolling without any way to stop.
She is regaining balance in life, thanks to the attention and love ones. At age 24, her first lesson is probably quite expensive, but you will learn to trust and love the place.
