Life is 10% what happens to you. 90% of life is due to your reaction to things that happen.

What does that mean? Now let's try an example:

You're having breakfast with his family. Your kid spilled coffee on your shirt. It happened suddenly, you cannot control. It happens then is the reaction of your discretion. You yelled at your kid and he cried. You blame that his wife were placed the coffee too close to the edge of table. Both started arguing for a while. Angrily you stepped upstairs to change clothes. When you come down your kid had still crying, not yet eating for school. He missed the shuttle bus.

Your wife hurried to go working. You have to take your kid to school. Fear of late, you drove so fast and broken the traffic law. After suffering a heavy penalty, your kid went to school late 15 minutes.. You came to the office 20 minutes late, and found yourself abandoned briefcase at home. Your day has started terrible. More and more bad things continue to happen ... In the afternoon you bored back home to see your wife and kid were not happy to welcome you as the days before.

Why do you have such a boring day?

A .Is the fault of coffee?

B. Does your kid make a mistake?

C. Does it cause by the police?

 D. Do you self-inflicted?

The correct answer is D.

You have not mastered the rights to 90% of your reaction. Your reaction in just five seconds has created an unfortunate day. You also may react differently. When a cup of coffee pouring, your kid crying, you would have said: "Never mind the next time you should be more careful." You gently upstairs changing clothes and carrying bag. You have to keep the baby waved to the shuttle. Kiss your spouse and go to work together. You go to the office five minutes early and cheerfully say good morning to all your colleagues. Perhaps your boss also compliments you on a day to work effectively.

Remember that your reaction is very important. Unexpected thing happened only 10%, your reaction accounts for 90%. Keep in mind and apply the 90/10 secret for everything happen during the day, you will see your life so much better.