After all: Love should come from both sides, from both sides, the only truly love is love. Love is only coming from one side only suffering, as "people-his-love" and also suffering "Who-love-her" is also very painful.
This question was first posed in many people, including us - those who did not-to-child-child and any-to-the-large.
Who in your life that no one embraces yourself these questions difficult to explain?
Who in your life that such a moment was smiling when thinking about someone, remember the eyes, the smile, the slightest gesture, and then realized: I was in love with "people-his-love".
Who in your life that no one is caught the eyes of shy, become permanent nostalgia of someone, and then realized: I had "people-love-yourself".
They all love! But, how to be perfect in love? to choose
That's the opinion of Truong Hamlet in The Who and other well: "But sometimes, we can take her sight would imagine waking up next to someone who has nothing to his passion. I do not like the smell of hair, do not miss what their body. I forgot to take care of themselves, because there is no one good enough for you to want, want to do better every day because of them. "
Because of that love-love-I'd like that, so thought I'd ask Truong Hamlet person-her-love because: you love them though, I have pain, but the pain was also present happiness many times more than they themselves do not choose who you live with emotion when!
Choose-your-love who will be pain, but it will be the most beautiful pain, worth the pain in this lifetime.
Each child is born with birth instead of crying voice laughed, it was so: this life is the greatest pain. People are always faced with the pain, live in pain of any length in their lifetime. Life was lived in pain, so pain once because love is what for?
His lover, always before them, I will also have the vibration, new emotions.
Although they will not respond emotionally, even though she knew would ever expect nothingness, though that will hurt but they'll still love to have those feelings. People-his-love as a drug. We try, our passion, our addiction forever, while many people away from the "substance" that, choose safety, choose who-loves-her. Because of his chosen people-love-drug is selected, we'll enthusiasts, but there will be times in life we blind ourselves asking tricky set-not-need-to-have. A friend was telling a story I heard:
A man has two wives while wealthy family circumstances, when insolvent, they walked away, leaving him with not-what-all. There was a woman who always await him, loving him, waited for him all age youth. He took her, she was as a single woman left on this world loves him. She makes pit to repay him, but every day, he drank the wine, beating her brutally. Though many advised her but still no-split-decisions but still love his hands - a blind love! And until now, the story has no end!
You see, the stories, the woman may have had too "addicted" people-her-love that blind or not? She was brave, endure pain in exchange feelings in my heart that few dare to try bold. Many people will tell her stupidity, but each person's behavior comes from a particular engine. Please let her "be" people-their suffering-love!
Do you dare to try this drug?
Or choose-your-love!
Our ancestors previous day, sometimes even our parents, they come together, sometimes not by love, but by the arrangement of the parents. His mother was or say, "Live long together, though there is no love, but it also means, very close dear! Sometimes to live together, not necessarily love where love has such power! "
Do not fall in love, living together will have sex, but is "love". "Love" was coined from marital responsibilities, children, it's definitely a bond of mutual binding.
"Love" makes you safe, but very faint!
Just watched the movie, especially the music video "We Belong Together" by Mariah Carey or the content of the music video has a lot of foreign varieties such scenes: The wedding took place in the church, suddenly a young man that ran to distribution with large car, stop the car, quickly ran into, holding hands and took away the bride, both smiling happily tape on the car, go far away to the groom, the two families to face "stiff "as possible. Landscape "robber bride" thing that many people can enjoy! She's really been liberated!
So in real life, how many people can be as lucky as the other girls: get out of boring married life before starting the binding?
Yes! Life is not like the movie, and we know, the post of non-marital love-is divorce, breakup, if both parties still have children, it is of deep tragedy of a child's mind.
Let's stop thinking that, when living together long term, we will have true feelings, because: Few people are so great! Love may have feelings of love, but it is not!
And when choosing who-love-yourself, choose the safest way of love, then you have selected the "love" instead of "love" it!
Choose who-love-you, you feel yourself selfish?
You just think to yourself feeling, because you just look forward to receive the love, attention, spoiled coming from someone that did not bother responding, because: You ask them where? You have passion for what they where from? Get them right, you'll be safe there, what you get will be the "roof", but not "nest" was stoked by both parties.
Conclusion
The his-and-love-love-yourself when it comes to relationships, we see:
People-his-love, when they accept to live with us, can not they a person has taken "the-love-her" or not? And "People-their-love" - they really happy?
And who-loves-me, when we accept to live with them, they also have to live with "people-his-love" or not? And happily smiling at parties?
"People-their-love" and "love-your-" is an endless chase to a standstill circle!
After all: Love should come from both sides, from both sides, the only truly love is love. Love is only coming from one side only suffering, as "people-his-love" and also suffering "Who-love-her" is also very painful. When asked, do not just think about your feelings themselves, but to think more for others. Everyone will have a "one" that God brings to perfection for their lives.
And you, you will wait for a robust real-is-of-the-you rather?
