When I was young, some older men told me that “Tears are not for adults, especially for man”, there is only exception in the death of your relative .Is it right?

Yes, life is not easy and too much complicated. Sometimes we need the robustness to overcome all the obstacles, but also let be soft when needed, to soothe the tired heart. Full of pent-up anger, let be cried loudly, feeling tired then stop. Do not force yourself to be strong, and do not think that tears are not for adults. Tears sometimes can release your stress