Have you ever been stuck between two women who are complete opposite of each other, but have all the characteristics you want in a woman? You find yourself sitting ringside at a boxing match with two of your favorite fighters about to get it on and you really don’t know who to root for. It’s something like this: at the blue corner, she is naughty, sexy, confident, spontaneous, and open-minded. At the red corner, she is beautiful, modest, fun to be with, friendly, and has a good set of morals. Both women have most of the characteristics you want in a woman, and it’s so hard to choose one over the other. Then the unthinkable happens, the bell rings. You find yourself dealing with two different women and the fun begins!
Well I was faced with this dilemma a while back and handled it like a pro, might I add. It was like the best of both worlds, but obviously I wasn’t ready to settle down. I was a young and wild animal. Some of you might call this selfish but at the time I was learning a lot about women , so it became a learning experience (makes perfect sense). But enough about me , let’s get to the two women I was dealing with, one was “Good” and the other was “Bad”. Now you’re probably wondering how did I distinguish whether she was bad or good, well that was easy, plus I had to, somehow, characterize them.
One of the woman I called the “Bad” one. There were many different reasons why I chose that particular word. It was her appearance, her attitude, and overall her personality. She had tattoos all over and I do mean all over, piercings in places you can only image and her clothing was oh so sexy (to die for). She was into alcohol, fast cars (she even drove a stick shift), made her own rules, and was very intriguing. The other one was the “Good” one, again wasn’t hard to determine why she was the good one. She didn’t have any tattoos, the basic piercings(nothing out the ordinary), her clothing was very conservative, and not promiscuous at all. She was also very pretty and innocent, wouldn’t hurt a fly and I took her home to my mom many times.
I felt like I was in two different worlds that coincided with one another. I couldn’t have one without the other, I was able to have two distinctive identities and I loved it. I was a risk taker and cautious at the same time. I able to experience Broadway plays with the “Good” one and go bungee jumping with the “Bad” one. But as both relationship began to progress, feelings only grew stronger and I had to pick. My selfishness had to end, and I had to grow up and understand that this could not last forever. So I made a relatively smart decision. Again, you are probably wondering who did I pick? But because I like to keep certain things a secret, unfortunately I can’t say.
What I can say is I grew a lot from that experience and honestly, I thank both women for the opportunity given to be able to be part of their lives for that period of time. It made me somewhat of a perfect guy when it comes to dating and very intelligent too. The disappointed part of all of this is the lucky lady I picked, well, we didn’t last. No worries though, we are still good friends and now I know, well hope my next girl has a little bit of both characteristics, best of both worlds!
