When it comes to life coaching, there are many things that will be learned which offer guidance to better success in life. There is one thing though that is the most important thing you will ever read. It is something that can offer you the ability to stay on course in your life and reach all of those goals that matter to you. My posts have covered how to handle people that are deceptive, people that try to take away your freedom or success. Realize what the game is with those folks and you are halfway there. Then, you also have to realize that your steps to reach that goal must be set, and altered as your daily life changes, in order to help you reach those goals. Having the understanding to realize how other people react and interact with you can be a real asset. Spotting the people that get in the way of your success, and realizing that your own upbringing can work together to hinder your success in reaching whatever goals you have in life as well, can be one of the greatest tips you ever get. Still, there is that one thing that you must know. I will cover that at the end here.

Growing up many women especially, are taught to be cordial and adaptive. This hinders the woman in your life from becoming a leader. It can be so bad in your personal social circle that being a leader is seen as a negative thing. Realize, as a woman, that this is the enemy. Never allow anyone to interfere in your life. Have boundaries, but also realize that some people make trouble in an effort to get in your way. They know that if they keep you busy dealing with life's little hassles and disrespect, that you will be detained from your goals. So, when you get that feeling that something is off or happening too often you need to do the following: Ignore it, and make that much more effort to reach your personal goals. Often ignoring a bully can derail them from attack. Still, this doesn't always work. This leads to the next point.

When you know who your real friends are, then you can help yourself reach your goals faster. Only trust those people that you know are your friends. Never make the mistake of thinking that someone that is smiling is your friend. Never make the mistake of assuming that someone that is offering help, wants to really help you. Watch your boundaries in life, and know who your real friends are. Social media is a huge issue for many people that fail to understand this concept. I use social media for my writing, and have acquaintances that are called friends, but the only people that really know me are those people that I have met in person and know how they really are. The US government should know this and often fails at it themselves - sadly to our nations detriment. I'll post another article on this one later.

All of this is known as social intelligence. It's just the tip of the iceberg too. There are far more concepts to truly knowing how to live life in a way that is truly free. Hiding from reality is not the way to go. Still, many people do this, and hence - become sheep. Others are not interested in leading, and that is fine too. Just make sure that your goals are those that you chose, rather than someone else guiding you to become who you are. It's deep, I know, but it's also the most important concept you can ever grasp. Don't be naive. The best friend you can ever have is that person that tells you when you are heading off a cliff. Those people are the ones that are willing to speak up for the truth. By now you might be wondering, so "Kitty what is the most important thing that I you will ever read?" It is this: Stay on course. I repeat, +Stay +On +Course - Realize that when someone is working against you, there is a reason for it. Whatever it may be, you might never know. I do know that power is important to people. So NEVER allow anyone to take that away. It is the key to real freedom and how you reach your goals in life. Read the link for more information on how to get rid of a stalker in your life - no matter who they are. You might not be the most popular person around, but you will live an authentic life that is full of people that really care about you. May you be blessed.

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