Oh, goodness! I am so glad I found this when doing a Google search. With my fiance's co-workers, the lady at Big Lot's opinions, and just random people that we don't know, I was happy to find this. I don't find the "enjoy these days, they grow up so fast" one so bad, but the rest, I completely agree with. Number one. Well, yes, my hands ARE full, but as she mentioned, it's really not necessary to state the obvious. Secondly, the "I don't know how you do it". I do it from love. I made the decision to have these children and knew it wouldn't always be easy, but they are what I wanted. That's how I do it. My fiance has gotten several comments about how he needs to "calm down" and such.