Who Was It With?
Anonymous.
When Did You Realize It was Love?
When I realized the only person who was always there for me was him
What Did It Feel Like?
When you're in love, it's like you're always happy. You feel so comfortable around that other person & they're just perfect in your eyes. You never stop thinking about them, ever. You don't know what your life would be without him/her. He/she completes you. You feel like they're your best friend, not just your boyfriend/girlfriend.
What Happened Next?
I was with him from when I was 12, to 14 and a half. He was only a year older than me. We broke up a lot at first but then we just made it work, we always got back together. We were so perfect. It seemed like no other couple had what we had. I was always happy when I was with him. My parents didn't allow me to date at that time so I kept it a secret. We tried to see each other as much as possible no matter what(: we were so amazing. He was the sweetest guy ever! He was my first kiss, my first love, my first everything! We stayed by each others side through the thick and thin... On April 20th, 2010 he called my sister and asked to talk to me. It was around 11pm so I was worried something might have happened to him. Turns out he was just breaking up with me. I cried all night... The next day at school I found out by some friends he had been cheating. I was crushed. I still remember the exact words he told me when he saw me cry, "get over it, it's not the end of the world"... About 4 weeks later he calls me apologizing, wanting me back, but I couldn't deal with all that anymore. So I told him to just forget about me. A few months later he gets with this girl. He still called me asking for me back while he was with her but I just couldn't take him back. I did love him a lot but I just couldn't. A few months after that he's still with her. She's pregnant now. He tried to show me the sonograms, I just couldn't look at them. He still tried talking to me even after he found out he's gonna be a father but I didn't fall for it... Even if it was hard not to. It made me so upset... We had our whole future planned out... We were so happy. But it's whatever now... The past just made me the strong girl that I am today.
Lessons Learned
- Don't take things to fast.
- You don't have to sleep with a guy to prove to him that you love him.
- Don't let nobody take advantage of you.
- Have respect for each other.