"You are human and you have imagination," he says. "It is designed to be creative."
Human beings will always be found in doubt create or not create, decide to make decisions, or allow others to take for them, that is where there is the possibility that each is given to form his own story.
Although no one can teach you to be creative, creativity can be stimulated. You may need a boost of creativity, but not always have to be like - can also maintain a stable level of creativity if you have the right attitude, a positive extremely patient awareness and above all consistent routine yser.
"When you do not manage your own bus, no matter much where go, because it will not coming in any way" Richard Bandler
Other people may try to get in a direction that would serve them to them, but not you, even if they have good intentions. This only limit you, good to have a receptive attitude to comments but do not let someone's opinion stop you from doing what you want.
Keep in mind that people generally have resistance to your ideas, because good ideas are changing the dynamics that are already established, and people mostly like things as they are. When you reveal something that challenges the status quo, many feel threatened. naturally tend to fear self-criticism, however, it is what helps us learn to focus on our changes rather than those of others. Always ask yourself, how it might have been improved or another way on another occasion would solve this or that situation based on your experience. Who does not know their history are doomed to repeat it. The mistake is valid thousand times, but it is better, wrong in different ways each time, and without fear. Admit that you are not perfect and you just do your best is the essence of personal expression. If you can not see any errors in your work is because you're not trying hard enough.
Being self-critical does not mean putting on a so impossibly high standard that can never achieve. Whenever you criticize your work be sure to recognize your strengths. Do not be a perfectionist. If you believe what comes naturally to you, without thinking that has to be perfect always you have a creative result. There are a number of routes to success and error is the most human thing there is, the more creative artists often leave their mistakes exposed. Nature itself is beautifully imperfect. Do not try to make things as perfect finish destroying what your unique work.
However, people with a developed emotional intelligence, have the necessary strategies According to L. Lantieri and his program which confirm that the best way to resolve conflicts is using creativity. First tranquility is needed, thoughts are modulated and expressed assertively. Start calming down, make contact with your thoughts and seek ways to express them. It shows willingness and attitude to seek a resolution of the problem. It gives his view objectively and contributes to the resolution. Search diverse viewpoints and proposes innovative solutions. It acts with confidence, empathy and of course knowledge.
