Before, I was really a people-pleaser. I want to just please everyone so that they would accept me and be friends with me. I do most of the things they wanted me to do - if they'd ask me to buy something in the canteen, I really would, if they'd ask me paper, I wouldn't really hesitate to give them, if they'd ask for answers during exams or quizzes, I would really make my writings bigger so they wouldn't have difficulties in seeing my answers.
But no matter what i do to please them, there are really some who still doesn't like me no matter how I try. There would always be those people who would criticize, who would pull us down and discourage us.
So, I then realized that, we really couldn't please everyone. We just have to be ourselves. If people would like us, then it's good. But if they don't, i wouldn't even care. As long as i am not pretending. As long as I am being who I really am.
Don't try to change your self just to please people. Because you'll end up becoming an actor portraying another's role..