She calls him by his first name, sends him letters every week, promises to wait for him. It could be any love story but Victoria’s heart belongs to a mass murderer: Anders Behring Breivik.

Responsible for Norway’s worst peacetime killing since World War II, Breivik, like many other notorious killers, has his share of admirers, a phenomenon that can be accompanied by sexual attraction and in which case even has a term: hybristophilia.

“I really wouldn’t want to live a life without him,” says “Victoria”, who does not want her real name published.

A young Swedish woman in her 20s, she comes off as distant and standoffish, ignoring her fresh cup of coffee in a Stockholm hotel lobby, but her voice cracks when she talks about her “dearest Anders”.

From a small town in Sweden, she is doing everything she can to obtain an easing of Breivik’s prison conditions: he has spent the past four years in isolation at a high-security penitentiary.

He is currently serving a 21-year sentence, which can be extended if he is still considered a danger to society.

Breivik killed 77 people on July 22, 2011, when he set off a bomb near the government offices in Oslo and then opened fire on a Labour youth summer camp on the island of Utoya.

For Victoria, Breivik’s isolation amounts to “torture”.

“I care even more about him now that he is in such a vulnerable situation,” she says.

Unemployed because of health issues, she writes to him to help boost his morale—so far more than 150 letters—or sends him small gifts, including a dark blue tie he occasionally wore during his trial.

In return she has received two letters from him—which she showed to AFP—the others having been blocked by prison officials tasked with censoring his mail.

Marriage proposals

It’s not easy to define her relationship with Breivik, a man she has never met since all of her requests to visit him have been denied.

She describes him as both her “old friend” and a protective “brother figure”, but admits that she finds him attractive and “there were romantic interests, at first, at least from my part.”

She says their first contact dates back to 2007 when they met through an online game. He cut off ties with her two years later, most likely to concentrate on planning his attacks.

But in early 2012, Victoria reconnected with the man who by then had become the most hated person in Norway.

And she is not alone.

The weekly Morgenbladet reported last year that Breivik receives “at least” 800 letters a year, many of them from female admirers.