Hello everyone :) It's my very first blog post. I found this site by mistake and said to my self that I should try it.
Hope you will like my topics and will write your opinion about subjects I will talk about in it. Btw here is the first question - I'm pretty much traveling (Turkey, Greece, Jordan, Egypt, Cyprus, Latvia, Ukraine) would you like to hear about this countries?
So lets begin. Today I wanted to talk about smt what really make sense for me - how do you see woman in Nova days? Do you think that woman remain sensitive and weak or she became stronger then man and more wise? I know that here on this web site are ppl from around the world - so will be interesting to hear your opinion ... But at the mean time what I can see that in Europe woman became mostly 2in1. Yes, I didn't make mistake. Tell me about something she doesn't do? Growing up children, working, cooking, cleaning and etc ... And even most of the time giving money to her hubby - as he lost job/ he can't find anything right now/he is sick and etc ... In Arab countries its still different : most of the times woman is at home, man is working - bringing money home, protect family and etc ...
At the mean time woman doesn't have same right as European woman, I'm talking about some strict countries as Saudi Arabia and etc. But really I love Jordan and Lebanon - no matter that this countries counted as an arab countries its like European with mentality of Arab countries. Still supporting woman and mans - are mans.
But lets talk about woman in this situation, do you think that ALL woman are so strong and able to handle everything? Nope, no chance. Most of the times woman learn everything to do alone as man says: I did everything (by this he mean that he try regular standard way, it's didn't worked out and he gave up), or:" Honey I don't understand anything in it, what you want from me?" What woman do in this situation - the things should be done, either with man help, either without him - she open google/ask friends/call someone and learn, find way things to be done. Lately she is coming back home and all what she wants it's to find some ready food on the table, man which loves her and most important !!! Show it to her!!! not by saying :"Baby I want you" (woman think at this time - Go to heal! Really after I done everything you want sex - idiot) but by taking care about her, holding her for a while in his hands and just talking/kissing with no idea about having sex right here, right now.
I'm really wandering what ppl are thinking about when they say to me first:"You are strong, you will make it up" and later on:"You should learn to be a weak woman" . And no one is not trying to give you a hand and help you. You are finding yourself totally alone in a middle of bunch of problems without any idea how and what to do with all this crap. Lately, when you are making it up to get rid of all this problems, same ppl say to you:"We knew, you are strong, you doesn't need help, you can manage everything alone" ... And after its sound as a joke:"But you should be less strong, you should be Woman" ...
But it's mine and only opinion. I'm sure that many ppl will disagree about all this what I wrote. But it's really will be interesting to hear they opinions. As in different countries happening different things.
But really what I'm 100% sure about: every woman need man who will love her and will act like he really do. Same as opposite. And specially I believe that behind every successful man stand one wise woman.
Cause all of us we know pretty good how to say BIG WORDS without meaning it. And later on no action to proof what did we said before. No matter male or female we are.
P.S. Dear friends, I will really appreciate your comments and opinion about this topic. Have a Great day!
Sincerely yours, Alya